I thought our bond of friendship is way stronger than their bond of so-called love. Thinking that all girls in love have the tendency to go crazy for the that one guy is normal, I let her be because by the end of the day I know she'll come back to us like she always did. And so I thought. Then the shocking truth slapped us, hard. He stole her from us. From her mind, down to her heart and corrupted her innocence. And the consequences of their actions bear a child in her womb.
At first it's an utter shock, we are painfully shocked. As days passed by, after several confrontations, more cries and few talks, I thought I can be fine with it and nothing will change. I have made a perfect conclusion in my mind that no matter what I think and feel won't affect the situation because it's already there and there is nothing I can do about it. So I might as well accept the things going around me, be happy for them and show my support for she needed it. Hating the situation or the persons involved will only consume me and pester me. All the negative emotions I have will only devour me not them. So, let it go.
I learned to let go of all those negative thoughts and be happy for other people even though sometimes it hurts. I don't even know what's more painful, knowing that she'll be a teen mom and the road of being a mother in such an early age requires a strong heart or is it for the fact that I'm older than her, even though it's only a year, yet she's more experienced than I am? :))
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